Monday, December 17, 2012

A Christmas Message..

It is hard to believe that this will be our last Christmas without Elder Calder home. This last year has come and gone in a blink of an eye. We are so proud of all that our missionary has accomplished. Here is a short Christmas message from Elder Calder (from this week's letter):

December 17,2012

I am happy to be a missionary. I am so frightened and saddened by all of the wickedness and hardship that surrounds each and every one of us, but I find comfort in my Savior, Jesus Christ. Because of Him, I do not have to worry, things don't have to look so bleak. Because of him there is HOPE! I hope we all take a little time to remember that. Not just at this time, but every day. As I said prior, let us all work a little harder, to be a little better. For truly this life is a time to prepare to meet God, and "the night cometh wherein no man can labor".

I know that this is God's church. I know that there is Hope. I know that the greatest part of this time of the Savior is not simply celebrating His Birth, but also His life, His Death, His Resurrection, But most of all His Atonement.

I love you guys, Keep your chins up this Christmas season and may we all lift those with feeble knees and trembling hearts.
 
Elder Calder
 
We hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and remember Him.

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Giving Thanks!

We hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving! This Thanksgiving was the last we will have to spend without Elder Calder... yep, he'll be joining us next year! Woohoo!
This is a wonderful time of year where we can give thanks to the many blessings that we have.
Schuyler did just that in his last letter:

The last week was good. I especially like Yesterday at church as everyone reflected on being thankful for that which we have. I am not very good at this. But I know it is an eternal principle. Take for instance the many times we are tested by God, if we only look for that which is good, if we keep our chins up, and if we notice all of the great blessings around us-we will begin to find that "Pearl of Great Price". I know that Christ lives. I am thankful for his atonement. I am thankful for a good family that supports me and whom I love. I am thankful that my family is just a bunch of my best friends. I am thankful for parents that knew enough to tell me "no" when I needed it. I am thankful for fun parents who I can play with. I am thankful for good friends that I have so much fun with. I am thankful for letters from friends right when I need them. I am thankful for thrift stores that have cheap clothes for cheap missionaries. I am thankful for new beginnings that allow us to refocus. I am thankful for cool animals that give me joy to play with. I am thankful for sweet computers that let me talk to people from far away. I am thankful for music that makes me smile. I am thankful for hands so I can clap when something is awesome. I am thankful for teeth so I can bite into a frozen grape. I am thankful for pain so that I can remember how nice it is to not have it. I am thankful for evil so that I can learn to be good. I am thankful for rain because it brings growth. I am thankful for hardship because it allows me to grow. I am thankful for stress so that I can stretch. I am thankful for being tired because that means I have worked hard. I am thankful for stinky feet because that means I have walked many miles. I am thankful for creeky bikes because that means that it's been used. I am thankful for my mission because it has taught me my real worth.

Happy Holidays! Hope yours is wonderful.

Monday, September 17, 2012

Woot woot for ONE year!!

Elder Schuyler Calder hit a milestone on September 7th....He has been serving the wonderful people of Texas for one year!!  He has totally loved being a missionary and sharing the message of the Gospel.  Schuyler has grown so much and it has been wonderful to receive his weekly letters and see the transformation that he is having.  We are so very proud of him and the rock solid foundation that he continues to build upon of the Gospel.  He loves the people and especially a good old Texan barbeque!!  His mission experience has had its hardships and challenges as well as many miracles and Schuyler continues to share his love of life and love for our Savior and His restored Gospel.  We miss Schuy like crazy but are very grateful for his willingness and desire to be obedient and serve diligently in the mission field.  We are sure PROUD OF OUR ELDER!!!
Love,
His Proud Mama Bear (LU)

P.S. Here are a few pictures of what our Elder is up to!!











Monday, September 10, 2012

One Year Down ... One more to GO!!

Elder Calder hit his 1 year mark on his mission this past week (Sept. 7th)!! We cannot believe how fast this last year has gone and am sure the next will go even faster. Congratulations Elder!!!
Schuyler also got a new companion and is still in the Eden area (outside of San Antonio). They have endured excruciating heats and some crazy people. Here are some pictures of his last companion and his newby:
 Saying goodbye to Elder Schwarz
Elder Calder & Elder Knudson
 
Keep up the great work BUD!! We love you!

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Happy Birthday Sky-GUY!!!

Our baby brother and missionary bud, Elder Schuyler Calder, turned the big 20 years old yesterday (I meant to post this yesterday obviously!). Happy Birthday Sky-guy! We sure love you and are so proud of you!! We hope you have/had an amazing birthday!


PS I found this sweet cartoon... yeah, pretty appropriate for both of my brothers! lol

Monday, July 23, 2012

It Simply Works

I loved Elder Calder's letter this week. Entitled, 'It Simply Works' he testifies of how the Gospel simply works.  I know, along with Elder Calder, that if we put our faith and trust in the Lord that everything will work out- because with the Gospel everything does work out. He is looking out for us and He loves us so much. If we can let the Gospel into our lives then He will help us.
Here is his full letter:

Hey there Everybody!
Well, I can't believe I am sitting here at a computer again. This last week has seemed long, and short, at the same time. It was transfers and as you know I was able to stay in Eden with Elder Schwarz: a great blessing.
We are happy to let y'all know that some good miracles happened this last week, three stand out to me the most, I will start with my favorite:
We were able to teach Robert yesterday with Brother Cooley. (We were supposed to teach him 3 other times last week but each time crazy things in his family would come up-he feels an even greater call to our message seeing that he had crazy 'distractions' come up three times in a row) The lesson went well. We taught him the Restoration, and it went great. Like I said, we had wanted to teach it a week prior, so the plan was a week in waiting, and we had plenty of time to refine it and change it according to the spirit. We taught him the Restoration and he loved it, but that's not where my favorite part came in, it was in the testimony of Brother Cooley, the member we brought. We didn't know Brother Cooley as well, not having much opportunity to get to know him but there was definitely some guidance in being able to bring him to the lesson. He has gone through many similar experiences, like Robert. Therefore his testimony made sense to Robert. What stood out to me? One thing he said: "The Gospel Works. It simply Works." He talked about how many times in life we can try other fixes, we are all trying to find that truth that will shape and guide our lives, and the Gospel will do it. Because it simply works. What a beautiful way to state it. Through hardship, through deep trials we look to one thing: The Gospel of Jesus Christ. And it works!!! It works at healing hearts. It works at lifting the down trodden. It works at bringing people to Christ. It works at getting people to the Celestial Kingdom. It simply Works.
Another great experience we had was with a lady that we actually taught two weeks ago, named Tracy. She was a great lady, we contacted her on her porch, taught a first lesson, but she wouldn't commit to a time for a second lesson. So we decided to put her on 'simmer'. We invited her to go onto Mormon.org to learn more on her own time. Well, this last week we received a 'referral text' from Mormon.org saying that she wanted us to come back and to bring a copy of the Book of Mormon. We were stoked! When people do as we invite, the success is there. It's like an infallible experiment, it will always work. When we go to church we are lifted. When we read the scriptures we are enlightened. When we pray we receive answers. It simply works.
On Wednesday we had an awesome experience while we were knocking. I had been feeling for the longest time that we would find a couple, and so every night, when we set goals for the next day, we included a goal of 2 new investigators. Well Wednesday we went to this apartment complex to check up on a potential investigator. When we got there we started knocking and.... it just didn't feel right. So we picked up and moved to a different place: an apartment complex just down the road. Elder Schwarz felt like that'd be much better. We began in one hall. Knocked one side, no one interested. Knocked the other side, no one interested... until.... the very last door. We knocked and a girl named Erica answered the door. Turns out that her best friends are the Smith's, members in our ward, and that she had once taken the discussions in Converse but had recently moved in with her boyfriend. Both her and her boyfriend (and both families) are catholic. Die hard catholic. But in her own words: "I love my heritage, it's awesome. But.... I love the Mormon church. Just as much, or even more than my Catholic heritage, but I don't want to hurt my family.... I read from the Book of Mormon, and the Bible..... I just feel torn, like one part of me wants to be a Mormon because it's so wonderful, and the other part wants to remain Catholic because my family is there, which makes it wonderful as well." BOMBING!!! We went in, taught a 'sort-of' first lesson. We have dinner with them at 5:30 tonight and will be teaching them the restoration. We know Erica is interested (especially in a Temple Marriage for an eternal marriage) we just have to see what Kyle, the fiancee says. But, it's the Gospel, so..... It will work out. It simply works!
This last week I had an interesting experience. I think it will stick with me, for the lesson that has been burned onto my soul. We knocked on this door and a nice man came out. We began talking to him about biking (we had seen a nice road bike in the garage). He seemed like a great guy, real nice, open, and best of all: interested in what we had to say. Then came the invite: "Would you like to learn more about our church?" The Response, "Sure, just one thing- What is your church's stance on homosexuality." Ouch, that stung. The conversation had been going so well, but I knew I couldn't ignore it. I looked him in the eye and said, "Our church believes that marriage between man and a woman is ordained of God" of course taken from the Family Proclamation to the World. He shut the door with a "That's all I needed to know." I felt somewhat sad that it had come down to that, but then a thought graced me. We do not stand down to our beliefs. We do not lessen our morals. We know what is right, and we stick to it, because it works. It simply Works.
As you can see, I ended every paragraph with the phrase: "It simply Works." What a simple, but profound statement. The Gospel of Jesus Christ, with all of it's trial, joy, and progression, simply works. It is what will give us peace and joy, not only know, but forever. I do not know where I would be without the Gospel. Without the Scriptures. Without Modern Prophets. Without the Church. I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints not because that's how I grew up, not because that's what my parents believe, not because I am entertained at church or because I love going "against the curve". I am a member because I know that it's real, it's not just words on paper, it's a way of life. And this way of life simply works.
Elder Calder
 
Thank you Elder Calder for such wonderful words of wisdom and for your encouraging testimony.
WE LOVE YOU!!!

Monday, June 11, 2012

Well, I have meant to post on here for quite some time now, but as always I'm slacking! Schuyler is doing great on his mission.  He just got transferred and is in a place called Eden! Here is part of his latest email- about his area and new companion. Hopefully we will get some pictures soon so I can post some.
 
Hey family!
Well, what a great week this last one has been. Boy, am I loving my new area, it's definitely got trials, but it just feels different.... kind of fresh! So first of all here is my new address for those of you (I hope many (: ) that want to write to me:
Elder Schuyler Calder
13030 Park Crossing #201M
San Antonio, TX 78217
My new area is called the Eden area. That's right, I am serving in the Garden of Eden!!! It's pretty awesome, in fact our apartment complex has it's own 'mini lake' that we get to run around every day. It's real cool. And there are tons of ducks there so we end up chasing the ducks a lot (well I do at least). My new companion is Elder Parker Shwarz. He is from Gilbert, Arizona. We get along real well. He loved music (just about as much as me) before coming out on the mission, and he attended BYU provo for a semester before as well. He has 8 brothers and sisters. Yep, that's right, tons and tons! He has 3 brothers and 5 sisters. He loves the heat (so he loves San Antonio) and is thinking about going into finance or accounting after his mission.
In our area we are what is called a "car-share" so we get the car one week and then we bike the next week.... Heh, this upcoming week is our bike week and it is supposed to be even hotter than the last week! It's going to be hot! But, luckily I have a 3 liter camelbak so it is great for staying hydrated. The apartment is pretty nice. I was lucky enough to get another apartment with Washer/Dryer, and Dish Washer (but.... it is currently down and out for the count and has been for the last several months.... but... at least we have it!) It's actually kind of funny because Eden is literally a mile up the ride from Woodlake. In fact, I am in the same stake: the East stake. It is good though.
 
Sounds like he is doing awesome! We can't believe he is almost out a year. Way to go Bud! We love you BUNCHES!
 
PS Notice his new address :)